Talks on Meditation and Mindful Communication

Contemplative practice is intended to transform our lives. When one considers the totality of our lives, it is a relatively small portion of time that we are able to spend doing formal meditation practice, sitting, walking, or contemplating in silence. For those interested in true inner transformation and spiritual growth, it’s essential to find ways to integrate the principles and practices of meditation into the rest of one’s life.

The videos and audio recordings on this page represent a small sampling of Oren Jay Sofer’s teachings on bringing the values of spirituality into our everyday lives. They integrate the insights and tools of Buddhist Insight Meditation, secular mindfulness, and Nonviolent Communication. These teachings are offered freely. You may donate here to support Oren’s teaching.

Say What You Mean: Washington DC, 2019

The Beauty of Integrity: Spirit Rock, 2017


Mindful Communication and Insight Meditation

Life is a relationship. From the moment we are born until the moment we die, we are in relationship: with others, with ourselves, and with our environment. Though we have very limited control over what happens in life, we can have some say over is how we relate. The contemplative path helps us to examine and transform how we are relating to life.

Through the practice of insight and loving-kindess meditation, we shift the basis of our life from fear, greed, confusion, self-centeredness, alienation, irritability, etc. to one of courage, generosity, compassion, kindness, connection, patience and honesty. If you are interested in more videos on Mindful Communication and meditation, subscribe to Oren’s YouTube channel below.

GUIDED MEDITATIONS

Guided Mindfulness Meditation
2017-05-18 at Insight Meditation Society Retreat Center
Guided Metta Meditation
2015-02-22 at Insight Meditation Society
Establishing the Anchor
2017-11-30 at Mt. Eden Retreat Center
Joy And Gratitude
2018-03-25 at Spirit Rock Meditation Center
Self-Compassion
2018-10-13 at Spirit Rock Meditation Center
Mindfulness of Thinking
2019-12-20 at Spirit Rock Meditation Center

dharma tALKS

Featured Talks

Foundations of the Contemplative Path
2019-01-28 at Spirit Rock Meditation Center
The Spirit of Play in Meditation: Enjoying Meditation Practice
2018-07-19 at IMC Berkeley
Technology, Meditation & Relationship
2017-12-06 at Cambridge Insight Meditation Center
Refuge, Refugees & Charlottesville: Dharma in 2017
2017-08-20 at Insight Meditation Center
Five Ways to Transform your Meditation Practice
2017-03-22 at Cambridge Insight Meditation Center
Mindfulness Is Intimacy With Life
2019-12-17 at Spirit Rock Meditation Center

MINDFULNESS & EQUANIMITY

Just Enough Mindfulness
2017-11-29 at Mt. Eden Retreat Center
Meeting the Heart and Mind: The Third Foundation
2015-03-06 at Spirit Rock Meditation Center
Equanimity: The Balance of Awareness
2015-02-26 at Insight Meditation Society
Mindfulness of Emotions
2016-02-24 at Cambridge Insight Meditation Center
Instructions on Thoughts and Emotions
2016-02-23 at Insight Meditation Society

Wise Speech

Communication As Daily Practice
2019-02-10 at Insight Meditation Center, South Bay, Silicon Valley
What is Real Dialogue?
2018-04-20 at Spirit Rock Meditation Center
The Path of Wise Speech
2014-01-27 at Insight Meditation Center
The Path of Wise Speech
2015-07-24 at Barre Center for Buddhist Studies
Speech as Foundation and Insight
2015-07-25 at Barre Center for Buddhist Studies

The Heart

The Strength of Kindness
2017-03-18 at Insight Meditation Society
The Gift of Gratitude
2017-11-13 at Insight Meditation Center
Compassion, Willingness & Courage
2017-03-20 at Insight Meditation Society
Devotion: The Heart of Practice
2014-11-08 at Insight Meditation Society
The Inner Friend
2016-02-22 at Insight Meditation Society

Daily Life Practice

The Power of Embodiment
2020-10-11 for Benicia Sangha (online)
Everyday Mindfulness and Concentration
2015-10-11 at Marin Sangha
Seeing with Eyes of Wisdom
2015-10-18 at Marin Sangha
Cultivating the Wholesome
2015-10-25 at Marin Sangha